IMO I should flex with my wrestling schedule not my church schedule. In our household we attend every time the doors are open. (Sunday a.m. & p.m. Wednesday p.m. and any youth group events). That is the example I choose to set for my family.
Sorry then you should not attend Sunday tournaments. I believe that I don't have to be in the pews every Sunday to be a good Christian. But I see your position. I believe that "The good lord won't mind us missing for a father and son time" A Family Prays/Plays together stays together.
