dont leave it up to the ref to decide the match if your worried about it. tell your kid to pin his kid and you have no calls to worry about. i had a bad escape call in my sons match. didnt even decide the match but i explained to the ref after the match and he didnt listen. some coaches would keep it going but i let it go after that. many of those refs wont be reffing when it comes down to district and state where it really matters the most anyways.