When my oldest son started wrestling, it became such a part of our life that all conversation in March started and ended with it. As he became older the focus became a little less as more activities were added to the year. Now, he is a freshman and my two youngest boys are in their second year of wrestling. I don't have the anxiety attacks and feel the pressure with my two youngest. Maybe because there are more things going on in my life right now. Maybe it is just from experience. All I know is that I enjoy watching Kids Federation Tournaments so much more now than I did back then.
Hang in there, it does get better.