I never said I wouldn't stand up for my wrestlers, or talk to a ref about a call, but what I WON"T do is give my kid an excuse. There is a dozen things the kid could have done differently to win the match, bad call or not. I am not saying we do NOT have a problem with some refs that need some help. Let's give them the help they need, by utilizing some of the ideas posted on here. Ways to grade refs, ways for refs to scrutinize each other without getting booted out of the "group". Let's make sure this sport remains the great life lesson teacher that it is. The reason I can't stand to watch a BBall game is because of the impact that refs can have on the outcome. Wrestling is not like that, and never will be...........