I am Christian but have not been to church in over 4 years and really don't care.
An interesting position. If you don't mind, let me ask you two questions.
1. Are you at a place in your spiritual life that if you died today, you know that you would go to heaven?
2. If you did die today and stood before God and He asked you, "Why should I let you in my heaven", what would you say?
What I should have used a different phrase instead of "really don't care" as I was in my writing zone and it just goes...with that said even though I have not been to church in 4 years does not mean I don't know who died for my sins and I do pray from time to time and not in public and take part in our Christian Challenge here at WU and not going to church is something I have been debating with myself to go to. I thank God everyday I wake up and thank him for giving me another day to live. As to both of your questions I am a young man who has yet to live his life to fullest and if God willing ask me those questions 50 years from now and I might be able to give you a better answer
