Here is a story from a Kansas high school tournament earlier this year (as told to me by a wrestler who witnessed it).

A wrestler is getting frustrated during a match and head butts his opponent which cost him a point. After the match, the wrestler's coach is telling him that he wrestled a good match and not to worry about the loss. At that point the wrestler drops an f bomb university on his coach.

A short while later the wrestler (witness) was in checking his weight and the same wrestler comes into the room and is still very upset. He punches himself in the face and another wrestler in the room says "Dude, did you just punch yourself in the face? That was awesome."

The wrestler that told me the story said that he thought the other wrestler had some anger management problems. Here are my observations from this event:

1) Head butting your opponent when things are going your way is unacceptable (BAD).

2) Dropping the f bomb university on your coach should get you a one way ticket to the basketball floor (BAD).

3) Beating yourself up instead of your opponent after a loss is not against the rules (GOOD).