In the Metcalf/Caldwell video above the wrestlers were in the same position as the high school video that started this thread. The offensive wrestler seems to be holding the defensive wrestler off the mat and clearly the shoulders are not touching, but both the NCAA official and the HS guy called a fall because of the scapula. And the college kid reacted just like the high school kid did....they both thought "I wasn't stuck" but sure enough, they both were.....
I've called this a few times and nearly every time somebody hoots and hollers but what can you do? A fall is a fall.