Before we sign our son up and pay fees for each tourney we always ask him if he wants to wrestle "this week". Most weekends he says "yeah" but on occasion he has said, "no, I'd rather blah, blah, blah". Even though I'd like to see him wrestle every weekend because mat time helps at his age, it's his life and his decision. I think taking a weekend off every three weeks or so helps with burnout.

Hope that helps.