I hear ya WP. I had a high schooler with an above-average amount of talent despite not having ever wrestled before HS, do very well, suddenly without warning, give it up a few years back. Was a complete shock and totally difficult to watch and experience as a parent. But, it was his decision. I tried everything in the world I could think of positive to help, but didn't work. I can only hope that in the future it isn't regreted on his part.

Given your immediate scenario, and my apparently ineffective approach, I'm not sure what to offer. One person who very well could offer some good avice though would be Nathan Furches' father. I read everything I can get my hands on that he writes.

Good luck.