My son wrestled for four years in Youth and one year in MS. He was always very active, playing 5 or 6 sports every year plus doing music. He decided, after last school year, that he wanted to try for a Div. I nationally-competitive musical group and asked me if I minded if he gave up a couple of sports, including wrestling. I told him he needed to do whatever he felt was best for him. So, he put all his energies into his music after football ended and is now the youngest contracted member of this world-class musical group for 2006. He will get to travel all over the country from 5/26 through 8/12 this summer, and get to appear in places like Mile High, The Alamodome, Hoosier Dome, Georgia Dome, etc.
Sometimes you need to trust the kids to do what is best for them.