this thread has gone from some valid opinions what stalling needs called earlier and more often to "My kid got screwed". I ask that you read the "125lb 3th and 4th place" and look at the posts from both the kids fathers. There are always going to be contested matches, and yes once in a while we as parents feel our kids gets screwed. But that is the way it is in sports. Think about if you are saying your kid is getting screwed more than once or twice. If so you are probably just making excuses. It will happen but it should be rare. Overall officials go a great job of a thankless, task. But we couldn't have the sport without them. My son has wrestled over 1000 matches and I only have 1 time that I feel he got screwed. And I got over it. You need to as well or you kid never will and he will use it as a excuse in the future.
JMO