Nix, make no apology as I should have seen that post as well. It gets kind of confusing reading through this. I will try to make this my last statement on the matter and leave well enough alone.......it is hard when you know these boys. If for a second, you can imagine having a hand full of boys in your club since you joined, and imagining them not being there when they want to be. It is just a little sad TO ME. And you are all right when you say life isn't fair, it's just not! So on this side of the fence, I just love these little guys so my heart is in the right place for wanting them to be with us but I know when the by law changes....and it will. It is the law! There will be no questions about it. Thanks Nix for reminding me that this on here for an appreciation for everyones opinion. As i stated earlier to the boys... it's not personal!It is just hard to remember that!!!