Must of been gone before the drama occurred. Wrestling is a very tough sport both physically and mentally on a child. Psychologically at that age acceptance and approval is very important by key players in a child's life. Hoping that the kid has some good coaches and teammates that show him support.

My 6U wrestler wins some and loses some. It's always rough on him to take a loss, but a month or so ago a high school wrestler asked him after a loss if he wrestled his hardest. My son had said that he did and the HS wrestler told him that if he did his best then you should always take pride in that whether a win or loss. Seen a flip in my son's attitude after that; whether a win or loss he will hug his opponent. The anger and blaming others has disappeared; instead he focuses on areas of improvement and talks about what he could do differently next time.
A big thank you to the high school wrestler for the support and advice to my son.