Ksu,
I think you need to change the way you look at things. Basically what you are saying is since small school kids play several sports and are unable or unwilling to wrestle with their high school coaches then nobody should be able too. Thats almost a communist view on things, i get sick of people crying that its not fair because the city kids have more opportunities, correct me if im wrong but is anybody making these people live where they are and if not its their choice to give up some things in order to live there.Who cares if kids move to private schools in order to wrestle and get a good education that is their choice. Your family could always attend a private school if you think someone is gaining a unfair advantage by going there.