Thanks for all the advice. I try to enforce that he is his own person. Also that it isn't about the wins or losses. I have told him that as along as continues to get better and practices what he is taught the wins will come. I explained that as long as he enjoys it we support him in it. It is hard for him to see this but as long as he keeps giving it all he has there nothing to hang his head about. His brother is built to be wrestler. I know he will probably be, dare I say it, a better basketball player than his brother but he loves wrestling for now. Thanks again for the advice.