sure whatever you say i guess. i dont agree with it but whatever you say. i really dont care at this age. highschool is what matters to me but to my son thats different. being in the finals at state is a big deal to most of the kids. now getting third for my son really doesnt mean anything knowing that the best 2 wrestlers in his bracket are on the same side. so if not getting into the finals isnt much different than getting third i guess that would be the difference to the kids. so for us we have got to stop thinking we know everything and say things like it doesnt matter to me cause its not about you its about your kid. just makes me laugh when people say something like it doesnt matter to them but we never hear it from the boys that are busting their asses on the mats.