It was brought to my attention that I made a terrible mistake in my original reply to Ms. Grater, and another in my second reply. When you are on the forums enough, you often tend to look at the name in the blue above their avatar, and not so much at their signature block.
I originally thought I was replying to Lance Geyer (L.Geyer) although I was looking at L.Grater. The second reply didn't make the first one any better as I came to find out today. I made a terrible error in not knowing who I was replying to, not knowing the entire story, just not knowing.
I made a mistake, and now realize how bad of a mistake it was. I apologize to all who took offense to it, to Ms. Grater, the Grater family, and the entire wrestling community.