I witnessed both the Jordan match and the finals. The semi was close and there could have been a bad call, but the moral is don't depend on the ref to win the match. They're human and make mistakes, so control the match and take the ref out of the decision. As far as Gracia's behavior, I believe that he was mad at himself for making a mistake that made the difference in the match (plus, LaMar isn't too bad himself). He did show up late at the awards stand, but Grater pinned his opponent early in the second period. He was in the hallway and most likely was not ready for the awards to be presented that early. I don't believe that his behavior was that out of line compared to some of the other wrestlers that lost.