Nigel ,

"the best part is they won't say it to me in person, but sometimes I wish they would just so I could throw them out of a tournament"

Most people on here want to throw you on your head, not throw you out of a tournament!!!!!!

sounds to me like you get a power trip out of being a referee. My personal opinion is that you are someone who needs a job that carries some authority so that people will actually listen to what you say and stop making fun of you all the time! (Looks like we have a future cop on on hands here)

Peace out,
Bigpin22