I agree with Bockover. There are several good young officials in the kids level. This is my first year coaching kids wrestling (coached 3 years at the high school level), but I have seen some good officiating. There might be a few calls I don't agree with, but with the young officials they are learning.
I tell some of my parents and wrestlers this "Don't leave the match in the officials hands", Some respond, "If they are a good wrestler, I might not be able to pin them". I tell them 4 things:
1) make sure you have the takedown fully secure so the official has no choice but to call it
2) if your upset because you got pinned and you don't think your shoulder was touching, don't get put to your back
3) Don't give up penalty points
4) Shake the match off and continue to wrestle your hardest and have fun, In the end its not about winning the trophy or medal, its about what you can take from the match and learn from it, so that you are better the next match