Dear loud&proudmama:

At nearly every tournament, I am certain there are actions by parents and participants that many of us disagree with.

Many of us realize, in the excitement and heat of the moment, things may be said which are not appropriate. Many of us also also realize, that due to the circumstances of the situation, it is not necessary to complain about the issue on the wrestling talk forum.

Probably, it would be best to say NO more regarding the incident, and let it die! Your continued comments bump the topic up to the top of the page, and encourage others to comment.

I commend RussellDad and Sooner Mom for their handling of this difficult topic.