I spoke up about this rule at the state meeting because it is too harsh on the children! I feel like the punishment should fit the crime. I am sure that just being ejected for the tournament is going to make more of a difference in the childs behavior than a year or greater ejection. The only consequence is that the child does not come back to wrestling! I was taught that wrestling is the one sport that teaches character, discipline, integrity, pride... All great qualities I want to teach my own children. This rule does not allow for high emotions that are bound to be present at the most important time of the year. It should be on a case by case basis, not clear cut for everyone. Rules are guidelines but seriously common sense should also be allowed when determining consequences. AND yes there is a definite difference in unsportsmanlike and flagrant misconduct and that is where the issue begins in my opinion. A good ref can keep balance and control on his mat, and then you have refs who think they are god.
-Sarah Hartley