OK coach Church, when you mention the fact that "If someone would have told THEIR A.D. about the parents, are you referring to me? The way it is worded sounds like it. I do not always know the parents from the other team, all though it is not hard to figure out. It is the responsibility of the coach to deal with his kids' parents. If that doesn't work then the A.D. should move in. I think most of us have had experience with this and it is our responsibilty to handle it first. If a coach would have come to me and said they had a prioblem with one of their parents then I would have told the A.D. I had no reason to tell my A.D. anything. You have my email and know how to get ahold of me. If you wish to discuss this further I would be glad to. If anyone else wants to discuss the Derby Tournament email me at bross@usd260.com Have a good day. Coach Bill Ross Derby H.S.