Competitiveness is a double-edged sword. I really struggle with my thoughts on this. But, as it applies to coaching and parenting, I have these thoughts.

I see some kids that are unbelievable motivated and strive to compete at the highest levels in our sport. I see some kids that are having a great time and simply want to be involved in a recreational activity for the winter. And, I see adults that also run the gamut in their level of competitiveness.

What happens to the kid who is semi-serious when he or she has a coach that is “ultra” competitive? Of course, if you have followed my recent posts, what if that coach is also a parent?

We all have heard the horror stories of over zealous parents. I myself have heard parents tell 8 year olds, “I didn’t get out of bed at 5 am, drive halfway across the State, and spend $200 for you watch you lose.”

I have lots of thoughts on this but will limit them for now. What do you think?