I think it was the darn headgear in most cases. I saw head gear thrown, kicked, squeezed tightly, head gear that get talked to in bad words, or the singlet was on to tight (that is when the wrestler quickly pull the straps down as he marches off the mat), - take control of the match and never let the official have any doubt, be nice to your head gear, shirt, shorts and any other objects that are in the your corner, as your coach hands you items as you march off the mat. I hate to say it, but most of the scoring or lack of scoring is the wrestlers doing.