I have to somewhat disagree with sportsfan. These two tournaments are well established and won't miss this small number of wrestlers. Why wouldn't the parents take their kids (if they can afford it). These types of tournaments where they meet new friends and wrestle for a team cause are a lot of fun. My son always talks about the Kansas elementary dual team. Hopefully he makes the middle school team. If my youngest boy was good enough we would go to Tulsa in a heartbeat. The boys love Incredible Pizza in Tulsa.