Who is more upset the kid or the coach or the parent, I bet the kid has already forgot about it and has moved forward. Not everyone is a winner but society seems to think so. Cowboy up quit whining and wrestle. This a good lesson for the wrestler also teaching them a good lesson in "LIFE". Life is not fair and it is what it is sometimes get over it. Work Harder.
"Remember that if you go the extra mile it is not as crowded"