I have been coaching wrestling for 13 years and have 2 boys. And being with them at mat side was always my dream but its more important to be their DAD and not their coach. My experience the last 2 years, they sometimes have a difficult time dealing with dad vs. coach. They see Dad yelling at them not their coach and that can cause a strain on relationships. So I now stand back and let others coach my boys. Sure makes things better at home. And they usually listen better to someone else. One should always do whats best for the kids not for Dad.