I recently got my bronze card thinking I could make a differance in my sons matches only to find out my coaching is more beneficial to other club members. One of the other posts made the statemant "to close to the situation". I believe this may be true for myself. I coached several years of little leauge baseball and football without this problem. I think its easier for me to find seperation in team sports. I let my 10 yr. old coach my 5yr. old last saturday and I think we all learned something.I feel that coaching has taught me alot about myself. Its taught me that kids arent the only ones who have lessons to learn. We all need to keep growing.