I think everyone kinda agrees that coaching and being a father is not the same thing. I have no kids of my own but I have been around examples and I tihnk the important thing for everyone to remember is the kids is to come first. If and when I have children- you bet I will be there to coach them and push them into being their best but I will also be a good father and listen to their concerns. When the time comes for coaches to coach and fathers to be fathers I will step aside and let their coach coach, but I will tell you that I will also be there at home to talk to them and work with them to become their best. First you are their father , then their coach, and then father again. Never down grade a child for losing- use it as a building block and keep things fun for them. From time to time you will have to be not so fun but in the need- being the best father you can be is the most important