nigel-
if a wrestler is pretty evenly matched with another kid and they both wrestle well the ref could screw it up. while your advice sounds great, we all know(including you) that it is not practical. if you wrestle a high level and get a good wrestler who is wrestling well there is a close match. and if the ref says that he doesn't give you two points becuase "he didnt want to" then thats wrong. you cant say, well, you should have won by 5 so it wasnt an issue...while i dont advocate bashing refs on a questionable call, there are some horrible situations out there.