I agree with the last three posters. If you don't like a particular move being executed on you, develop a good counter. It's a tough sport. And good point, Tarman. Once you get out of the little kids age brackets, generally the boys have a distinct advantage in upper body strength, so good for the girls that, rather than use that as an excuse for losing or to quit, develop technique with the legs. Of course, I prefer separate brackets but that's not always possible and that's another topic.