I'm so tired of going to tournaments and watching kids of ALL ages being poor sports. I've seen kids throw their headgear, tell their coaches to "shut up", fall to their knees and not shake hands, and my most favorite is watching a coach who has to physically hold the kids arm and move it up and down so he'll shake hands. I think the refs should be allowed to disqualify these kids from the tournament when they do this. Kids won't learn sportsmanship unless their taught it.