I am in complete agreement. The role models should be the ones win or lose the hold their heads high and shake hands, or even hug their opponents/coaches/refs. Learn from their mistake and go on. But the ones that always get noticed are the ones that throw the fits. I have seen alot of nasty behavior in the last 15 years, but when I see something good it makes me forget the bad! All of us parents really need to get on the bandwagon and pull together on this issue.