I will say this about poor sports. It is easy for those parents and coaches who don't deal with it regularly to criticize poor spotsmanship. It is easy to win gracefully. It is another thing to lose gracefully. I've seen those very same people who rag on others for their conduct following a loss completely lose it when their stud gets beat. Losing isn't fun. No one wants to lose and no one likes to lose. It sucks.