Losing may stink but it is one of the best ways to learn. When a wrestler loses he learns respect for the person who beats him, he becomes humble & learns how to be less prideful. As we tell our son everyone can be beat even him & only a true champion can accept the outcome win or lose. I think if we as adults can teach our kids good morales and values about losing in a wrestling match they will be much more equipped to deal with failure in the real world. Without the loses & failures we would not be able to truly appreciate the wins & successes.