True M&M4sons. However I am not saying I agree with being a bad sport (I don't) I just don't want my kids to become content with losing. I want them to hate it, and know that it is bad when they lose. (Win lose or draw I always try and find things our wrestlers do well in a match as well as things they need to improve on.) I agree we can all learn from a good whooping on the mat, but I think we can learn just as much from winning.