You said:

"He is completely wired at all times and I refuse to even think about having some doctor drug him up to control it. "

I wish more people would think like you and I do. Your kid is aggressive, hyper, ADD, whatever the "experts" want to call it, so instead of disciplining the kid, and giving him ways to release the energy, the "experts" and the parents decide that turning the kid in to a drug addict, and putting him on Ritalin, is the way to go. A fine message that is sending to the kid. Become dependent on drugs for any problem that you may or may not have.

I'll say one other thing: a kid on Ritalin is in another world. you might as well not waste your time having him wrestle, as they do not care. Everything is in slow motion to them. I've seen kids that used to be aggressive and attentive, all of a sudden become the "don't give s darn" type. Come to find out, the kid was put on Ritalin.

I also saw a classmate of mine slowly become a piece of garbage from high school to this day. Worthless. Come to find out, he was on Ritalin from 7th or 8th grade on. Once dependent on drugs, always dependent on drugs.

I'm sure I'll get some heat for this, but it is my opinion, based on witnessing kids that were "put on" Ritalin.