To jayhawkmom,
No, the opponet Brett Shoffner was wrestling was not related to the ref, the ref saw something you evidently missed. In most cases, it is illegal to grab your opponets (privates) and check their oil. Before the match even started, someone heard him bragging that he was the best "oil checker" around. Two officials were on the mat during the overtime and it was the second official that seen the incident. That is why the match ended the way it did. Tournament directors also seen the match and said it was called correctly.