I used to feel anytime I saw a wrestler "playing" with an opponent..it was all about himself. Making the opponent embarassed, stringing the match along. I was corrected when I asked the question "why not just DO it..end the match?" If all a wrestler does is PIN his opponent from the get-go..what mat time does he gain in doing so every single time? Because there will be that 1 kid whom you can't pin and you won't know how to wrestle the entire time because all you HAVE done IS pin in the first period. So I watched those that could and did not. I gained new understanding. Some do it to humiliate...MOST do not. They respect their opponent and gain mat time. Also giving their opponent a chance to wrestle.