Hey Nigel, we are talking about kids here. No use sour graping over a loss. Matches are matches and some of them don't go the way you want them but those kids out there no matter what their names are or where they are from do the best they can. I have seen a lot of my kids loose a lot and win a lot of controversial matches and I didn't always like the losses but things happen. If you are going to coach you have to have as much interest in the other kid as you do in yours, thats what we all are supposed to be doing on the corners of the mat, helping kids. It demeans you to openly criticize the integrity of a young kid because he beat one of your kids, especially publicly as this forum is. Sometimes it is better to step back and take a deep breath and remember what the point of it all is. Tough enough to be a kid these days without taking shots from people in print.