I don't get why you people can criticize people for throwing their headgear. i remember in grade school my teachers always saying you can't bottle things up, and thats so true, when you lose its hard, and some people handle defeat differently, wether it be throwing head gear, crying or acting like a baby rolling around, i think that parents should let kids do some sort of letting their aggression out. After i was screwed on a raunchy a$$ call this weekend by a crooked ref (who had to have the head referee watch the remaining matches that he did for friday and saturday)(fyi...the same ref who also threw rhodes out and called kids for stalling when they tied their shoes) i threw my headgear and said a few words i shouldn't have maybe, but everyone handles it different as you get older you learn to cope with losing and you start to handle it in a smarter manner but when you get royaly screwed out of winning a match it ***** and its heart breaking, i saw many referees screw wrestlers this weekend and don't tell me that its a mistake and it happens because i can pick out 1 referee who made so many mistakes it made me sick.
my personal view is that if you lose no matter how you lost be a man shake your oppenents hand shake the opposing coaches hand and then go off somewhere and do whatever you need to do to release that anger.