The only problem with this is clubs at that point are dictating parental rights,
Wrestling clubs are private organizations and can accept or deny members as they so choose.
you are also dictating into a private organization set rules which prevents them from exercising their own rights.
I'm not sure what you mean here but if you are saying it should be up to each club what their policy is, I agree. Just as long as they do the right thing and not allow athletes to be members while their school team is in season.