Well here is an idea. Why don't Kids Wrestling coaches attend the officials clinics and the KSHSAA rules meeting. That would give you a much better understanding of why officials call things the way that they do. As coaches you have no business trying to negotiate what is and isn't a rule in the rule book or how it should be interpreted. If that is what you would like to do then I suggest you become a certified official and officiate about 5 tournaments. I believe your tone will change real quick.