Some things that I can see from this whole ordeal:

1. Yes that was FM, and that was not a takedown attempt. So the right call was made by the official. You cannot even headbutt like that in MMA!
2. I am all for being physical and aggressive and this is not the way to go about that. I do not like the fact that Spencer does not get to wrestle next weekend. He is a tough wrestler and has a chance to do well at the state tournament. Just let him lose the match and wrestle again next weekend.
3. I think that if Meck was injured and not able to wrestle next weekend this would be a different ongoing discussion. If he was injured and not able to wrestle then the DQ for next weekend should be warranted.
Intense situation for an intense time of year.