There is a difference between pushing the rules and blatantly breaking them out in the open. Pick your battles, wearing a singlet at a tournament after season. Having your high school coach sit in the corner of matches after season. These are blatant public displays that will only hurt the kids or coaches if they are reported or KSHSAA shows up. Having a High School Coach in attendance and giving advice after the match one on one with the wrestler is pushing the rules legally and benefit the wrestlers. Be smart gentlemen, the ole kiss my ass I'll do what I want attitude is not always the best way to go.