I know of a coach in Kansas that was grabbed by a wrestler from his school to help him. The coach was turned in and had to miss a dual this season, and was told next time he would miss a season. This coach is a great guy and follows the rules, he was just grabbed quickly and acted without thinking. Most of the time no one cares if a High School Coach helps out or not, but I'm sure the parents of the wrestler who lost were the ones that turned this coach in. Do what you want, but be prepared to pay the consequences.